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November 15, 2007
Life’s Work

Hello, Vacation: It’s the Boss

By LISA BELKIN

I JUST booked a brief vacation, to a warm place, now that the weather is finally turning cold and the holidays loom. I clicked through all the usual disclaimers on the travel Web site — the hotel is nonrefundable; changes to flights can be made only with a hefty fee. Then I turned my attention to trip-cancellation insurance, and something new appeared.

Would I care to buy added insurance, I was asked, that allows me to cancel my trip if I have to work?

My first thought — now that’s a policy I can use — was followed quickly by my second — it’s official: nothing is sacred.

Time was when the words “I have nonrefundable tickets” were up there with “a death in the family” and “admitted to the hospital” as gold-plated reasons for not coming to work. In the last year, however, that venerable excuse has been rendered potentially moot by at least two insurers. AIG, which introduced its plan just a few weeks ago, charges $24 to add the “cancel for work reasons” option to a travel insurance plan, while Access America, which created the category just last year, charges $19.

I have had this feeling of loss before, when change, trumpeted as progress, has swept away familiar excuses. When pre-cellphone Caller ID meant I could no longer fudge my whereabouts. (No more telling editors I was at an interview when I had not managed to get my act together and leave home.) When I boarded a cruise ship and learned that not only was there an Internet cafe in the middle of the ocean, there was WiFi by the pool. (No more telling myself I couldn’t read my e-mail messages while at sea.) When I realized it was but a matter of time before cellphones are permitted on airplanes. (No more telling everyone “I am getting on a plane and can’t be reached.”)

I don’t mean to give the impression that I never work on vacation. I almost always do, which makes me all too typical. According to a survey this year of more than 6,800 workers by CareerBuilder.com, 33 percent stay in touch with the office while they are away. My most memorable work-infected vacation was in an era before laptops, when a deadline on a magazine article collided with two prepaid weeks at a beach house. So I dragged the computer and the printer and the fax machine and the dial-up modem to the beach.

And I also don’t mean to suggest that the existence of nonrefundable tickets means that no one has ever had to cancel a vacation for work. A recent Harris Interactive poll found that 19 percent of workers have done so at least once. Not all lost deposits. But I would wager that they all felt the unique frustration that comes when time off is snatched away.

David M. Grant, the president of the LVM Group, a Manhattan public relations firm, had to cancel his vacation because he’s the boss. He had his yearly two-week trip booked to the Caribbean about five years ago when he realized that one of the employees in his small company would be on maternity leave at that time. He canceled early enough that the hotel — where he and his wife went every year — was still refundable, but it was also full on the dates he was eventually free to take time off. “So we went to Mexico instead and were disappointed,” he said.

Kathleen Cosgrove, in turn, had to rearrange a vacation for work last April because she is not the boss. She had trained for months for the Boston Marathon, then learned that she would have to be in Hawaii on that date. Determined to race, Ms. Cosgrove, a publicist, flew to Hawaii and worked the week before the marathon. She flew back to Boston on Saturday and ran the race on Monday, despite having only 10 hours of sleep in the previous three days. Then she was back on a plane to Hawaii at 7 a.m. Tuesday morning, instead of taking the additional vacation days she had planned for recuperation. (Soon after, she left that employer, which she declined to name, and went to work for one with a more flexible vacation policy.)

Evo Watson was fired because she refused to cancel a vacation. Ms. Watson, who worked at a food distributor with plants in the United States and Canada, was about to leave for two weeks in Barbados — tickets paid for, time off approved — when her boss called and asked her to cancel. He didn’t tell her the reason, because he didn’t think he should have to, but in fact the company’s Florida office had been damaged in a hurricane and he needed to stay in the South rather than return to the North to replace her while she was gone.

Ms. Watson left on her cruise instead and came home to find that she did not have a job. She sued her Canadian employer, and in March a court there awarded her a year’s pay plus legal expenses. Vacation, the court said, “is a very important benefit, which should not be interfered with lightly.”

That is at the root of my sadness that one can now buy cancel-for-work policies. It is not the fact of it — after all, more expensive cancel-for-any-reason policies have long been available, so there was always a way to get your money back if you were properly insured.

What sobers me is the symbolism. The fact that scotching vacation for work has become so common, there is money to be made on it. We need those vacations. And now we can be $24 closer to leaping whenever work calls.

It makes Vicky Farrell sad, too, but she gratefully bought a policy nonetheless when AIG introduced it a few weeks ago. Ms. Farrell runs the Wee Can Dance studio for children in Hazlet, N.J., and is taking a six-week trip to South Africa starting in December.

“I wish I didn’t have to think about having to cancel, but I couldn’t book the trip if I didn’t know I had an out,” she said.

She feels reassured that not only is her $2,000 airfare completely refundable should she cancel before she leaves, but that the policy also pays for her to return home unexpectedly midtrip “if one of my teachers gets sick and I have to fly back and keep things from falling apart.” She added: “It’s not great to have to plan like that, but it’s the way life is.”

The market for such insurance makes Dan McGinnity a little sad, as well. He is the vice president of AIG Travel Guard, which created the latest cancel-for-work plan. “That’s what insurance is,” he said, “a measure of the risks we face, and I wish we weren’t all so busy that this was seen as a risk.”


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I think this is all too sad, but true. Like most people I know, I have a blackberry which makes me accessable 24/7. I have literally gotten e-mails at 2 a.m. on a Saturday morning and have had clients angry that I didn't respond until Sunday afternoon or Monday at 9 a.m. What the fuck could be so important that it has to be e-mailed on a weekend in the middle of the night? I'm sorry, but unless it is an utter emergency (in this instance it was a basic question, not very important), it can wait until the weekend is over, nevermind how I would feel if I were on vacation.

Unfortunately, with e-mail, crackberrys, and just basic cell phone, work seems to be able to encroach on free time without any barriers. It's ridiculous.



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fuck work! that is all...


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Eating at popeye's everday isn't work. We ax that you get a real job.


And, to be fair, one of my favorite friends there is blind and I take every opportunity available to make fun of that and we're still friends. That guy never fit there. He never got the spirit of the RKMBs. We're gonna keep an eye on the obits, see if he finally left or if he really did have a heart attack.
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Thats why you get your employer to get you a work only cell phone. That way you can turn it off when you're not at work. If they don't get you one, then tell them they can't bother you outside of work.


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 Originally Posted By: sneaky bunny
Eating at popeye's everday isn't work. We ax that you get a real job.


its only everyother day thankyou very much...and quit complaining before i stop bringing you the red beans and rice...


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but ah axed fo' mashed potatoes an' cajun gravy


And, to be fair, one of my favorite friends there is blind and I take every opportunity available to make fun of that and we're still friends. That guy never fit there. He never got the spirit of the RKMBs. We're gonna keep an eye on the obits, see if he finally left or if he really did have a heart attack.
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woman your getting the red beans and rice and your gonna like it!


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Is your wedding tackle really that small that you refer to them as beans and rice?

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So you want a day off. Let's take a look at what you are asking for.

There are 365 days per year available for work.

There are 52 weeks per year in which you already have 2 days off per week, leaving 261 days available for work.

Since you spend 16 hours each day away fron work, you have used up 170 days, leaving only 91 days available.

You spend 30 minutes each day on coffee break which counts for 23 days each year, leaving only 68 days available.

With a 1 hour lunch each day, you used up another 46 days, leaving only 22 days available for work.

You normally spend 2 days per year on sick leave.

This leaves you only 20 days per year available for work.

We are off 5 holidays per year, so your available working time is down to 15 days.

We generously give 14 days vacation per year which leaves only 1 day available for work.

There's no way I'll let you take that day off!

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There's always sick time...

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huzzah sick time.


speaking of which i have bout 15 hours burning a whole in my pocket. shit, i gotta use 40 vac hours or i lose them.....

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The vacation...not the sick time.

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My idiot employer does not give sick time. Does anyone here work full time and not get sick time?


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 Originally Posted By: Lothar of The Hill People
My idiot employer does not give sick time. Does anyone here work full time and not get sick time?


That is just fucked up, Lothar. \:\(


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I was confused reading this, 'cause I thought the title was, "Hello, Vatican: it's the boss" and thought it would be something about the pope.


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I thought it would be about Who's the Boss.

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That old hag?


And, to be fair, one of my favorite friends there is blind and I take every opportunity available to make fun of that and we're still friends. That guy never fit there. He never got the spirit of the RKMBs. We're gonna keep an eye on the obits, see if he finally left or if he really did have a heart attack.
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 Originally Posted By: Lothar of The Hill People
My idiot employer does not give sick time. Does anyone here work full time and not get sick time?


Do you get vacation days? Most full time jobs I've had they just lump all time off in one category.


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I dunno how it is in the US, but over here there are two types of sick pay, statuatory and company.
Statuatory sick pay is paid by the government and is quite minimal.
It also has to be accrued via tax payments on you weekly/monthly pay, and even then, you can only take so much in a year!

Company sick pay is completely voluntary by the company at hand, with the company under no legal obligation to provide anything!

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Thats called socialism. We don't have that here.


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No thats right, you dont have sick pay, free health care and such!
Must be great when you are ill and you cant earn enough money to pay for you health bills!

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If thats what you want to believe.


I'm not discussing that here because I don't want "them" to invade this thread.


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I'm not discussing that here because I don't want "them" to invade this thread.





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I remember that old horror movie

it ought to have been done on MST3K at some point..


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And the funny thing was that i was going to add that Beardguy will probably appreciate that pic...

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IN THE ASS!!!


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 Originally Posted By: Lothar of The Hill People
My idiot employer does not give sick time. Does anyone here work full time and not get sick time?

Yup,that'd be me.I have 88 hrs. of paid time to use each year.80 vacation hrs. and 8 personal(same thing if you ask me).That's it.My wife accrues "x#" hours of sick time,flex time,vacation time and personal time each week.She's got time to burn and the bulk of it is "rollover" and she never loses it.I,on the other hand not only have to use it,but they only want me to use it between the months of April & September because October-March are the busiest times of the year.Fuck that I say.I work hard for my paltry time off and I'll use it when I goddamn well choose to.'specially since I have no sick time.


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*side note* "Them" is an awesome movie.


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*side note* "Them" is an awesome movie.


Very true!





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i get a crazy amount of time. i accrue mine bi-weekly. 3.75 vac, and 3.25 sick, every payday. it doesn't seem like much, but in a years time it builds up quickly. hell, i didn't even realize till i did the math just how much we were really getting.


plus, i have had 2 paid days off for holiday and i get 2 more. huzzah for columbus n thanksmas.... and yeah to okies being proud to be a waste of a state and making a holiday like statehood day a state holiday

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I get 6 months off a year, and time and a half/ double time if i work any of them. but i don't get vacation. unless I ask the previous quarter.


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or fall down a flight of stairs.


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yeah kind of like that, only with steel, and landing on your ass


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yeah kind of like that, only with steel, and landing on your ass





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yeah kind of like that, only with steel, and landing on your ass





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