Rome y Julieta is a good, mild cigar that's not too expensive. Any decent tobacco shop should have some in stock. If you want your wife to participate (
), try having something like chocolate out for her to eat at the same time. A good cigar will enhance the tastes of certain foods and drinks. I remember one time while at my brother's, we ran out of bourbon. I opened a Dr. Pepper, and I'll be damned if that wasn't the best fucking Dr. Pepper I've ever drank.