I'd have to say single.By that,I mean without anybody you could call up & get it when you want.Now after going a while without,once you're with someone,you feel insatiable horniness a lot as well....so I guess both.
When I'm single. I currently have the hots for this chick she is just so fine. awesome body,big booty,I just want her so much.Sadly this STD I have is acting up.
ok, ok I'm couped up so I'm haveing some fun to answer your original question though I don't think it really matters if you have someone or not, It's all a question of sex drive, at least for a guy, guys tend to be horny. I''m about as horny now as I was when I was single only real difference is that my hand now has to share myself with my girlfriend. Did I ever mention that I hate that term?
It all depends...horny at the start of a relationship definitely...probably horniest right after a relationship ends...you're used to gettting it every day and suddenly you don't know when you'll ever get it again. But even in a relationship, though it may not always be that hot, frenzied horniness that it is at the start, I still want it pretty much every day. So, I'm sure this doesn't give you any kind of answer you are looking for, if you can make sense of it!
I am fairly horny. But right now, I am not looking, because I am writing and I have my mind focused on finishing the project. With that in mind, I don't look at the ladies' fine, tight asses and their perky pretty boobs as much as usual. I also look at faces too. Eyes are actually the first thing I look at, but I wanted it to be known, I look at da butt if they are in front of me or walk by...
NOW, being single... ANY WOMAN is an option. That is before you see the ring on her finger and the kid in the carriage or whatever. So basically, it is a matter of filtering. You know, like searching through the paragraphs for grammatical errors. "Ah, she's taken. Oh, she's old. She had a boyfried. She is a he."
That is the thing about being single. You are allowed to be attracted to anyone and can masturbate to anything without being guilty of cheating or having bad feelings. Because hey, there is no one in your life.
Now, keep in mind, I never had a serious relationship.
But lets say you meet the woman you perfectly trust and she trusts you.. Is she as hot as you want? Does she meet your physical desires? For some guys that happens... In most cases, as with women, there is that thing about "settling". You meet someone and you connect. Not exactly what you thought, but close enough.
Sure she doesn't dress in kinky lingerie or take it in the ass or love to suck cock night and day, but she will do half of those things if you ask her nicely. Maybe you luck out. Who knows. So she makes you kind of horny, and other women out there, with voracious appetites, but not the personality of the woman your with, kind of appeal to that naughty boy. And part of you desires that woman, and you kind of wish the woman you were with was that bad girl in bed. You know, a sexually aggressive dynamo. But that she worships your cock and no one else's.
Fortunately I had a great sex life prior to and after marriage. I love the thrill of the hunt but there is much to be said for finding that special someone as well. I can remember some dry spells as well and horniness was a very tangible thing that became all consuming. These brief periods would either end up with a very unsatisfying quickie or a very torrid night of passion that made all of the waiting quite worthwhile. All these factors make your question a hard one to answer but I will interject that your mind is your greatest sexual organ whether you're with someone else or by your horny lonesome! Utilize that mind correctly and brain numbing, ball draining sex is sure to follow!
Oh now just cause were horny dosen't mean we have a hard on 80% of the time, Drzsmith being the exceptin of course, it just means we can get a Hard On at any given time. Being horney and being hard are mutualy exclusive.
See, when I get horny...I get that tingly feeling down there between the legs and then real quick like, it kinda flashes out through the rest of my body (kinda like a mini-mini-mini-orgasm)...and could instantly have sex, right then and there.
And when I'm constantly horny (for more than a day) that happens all day/night long... It can become quite a distraction.
That's why I was curious as to how it was for everyone else.