There are many Republican gay officials and Republican conservative pundits and journalists. Two I can think of offhand are Richard Grenell (former U.N. ambaassador spokesperson, current U.S. ambassador to Germany) and Tammy Bruce (former head of N.O.W. for California, and now a pundit and columnist for Fox News).
You can spin it all you want, but there are passionate gay representatives on both sides of the political aisle. And there is just as much argument that the DNC is cynical and using gays politically, as there is for that argument against Republicans.
The two I listed above have expressed their disgust for the vicious cynicism of the DNC, to the point that they feel more represented by the Republicans.
