you have 2 options.

1) continue to be yourself and eventually you will find one that loves you for you and that you love for who they are. remember the odds are on your side (more girls than guys in the US).

2) take this link's advice. http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/ It will get you laid, it will get you a girl, and if nothing else it will help you learn how to get the girl of your dreams when you meet her. Take everything they say with a grain of salt however, its not gospel, you must tailor it to the girl. The 3 second rule IS gospel though.