How long should it take to get over losing your wife to another man? It's been awhile for me and I just cant forget her. I'd like to get that mouth breather she ran off with. I guess if I wasnt so busy playing computer games and Administrating message boards things would have been different.
Yes, I think it's safe to say I feel good about the place That I've been made in the world today I get all sticky inside When I close my eyes And I open up wide I see pictures in the clouds So obscene I gotta laugh out loud I look back to find my way Reminisce and laugh about the good old days Yeah, when I saw my brother above me I remember the words he said When you dream you hit bottom Chances are good you're gonna wake up dead I'll be up on top when the sky falls down And it all goes wrong again Yeah, I will be sitting on top When It All Goes Wrong Again Yeah, I will be sitting on top When It all goes wrong. Yes I think it's safe to say I feel good about the sins That I inflict on my own skin I pay money to cut and burn Pictures like the lessons that I need to learn I see faces on the ceiling I see them move, I hear them singing I lay back in here by myself I think about the time that I've spent in hell When I saw my brother below me I remember the words he said When you leave you wake up happy Then you'll sleep right in your own warm bed I'll be singing in the rain when the bad dreams com And It All Goes Wrong Again Woh, I will be singing in the rain When It All Goes Wrong Again Woh, Woh I will be singing in the rain When It All Goes Wrong Where are you gonna be When it all comes down What are you gonna do When it all comes down Where are you gonna be When It all comes down What are you gonna do When it all comes down on you I'll be sitting on top of the world When It All Goes Wrong Again I'll be sitting on top of the world When It All Goes Wrong Again I'll be sitting on top when the sky falls down And It All Goes Wrong Again Woh I will be sitting on top when it all goes wrong again Woh, Woh I will be sitting on top when it all goes wrong again Again and again I will be sitting on top when it all goes wrong Yeah, when it all goes wrong again Aw, when it all goes wrong again Oh, When it all goes wrong again When it all goes wrong again When it all goes wrong again When it all goes wrong again When it all goes wrong again When it all goes wrong again When it all goes wrong
quote:Originally posted by Marcus: How long should it take to get over losing your wife to another man? It's been awhile for me and I just cant forget her. I'd like to get that mouth breather she ran off with. I guess if I wasnt so busy playing computer games and Administrating message boards things would have been different.
If this is a genuine post....
I feel obliged to give you an honest answer.
I don't know that you ever actually get over it entirely. Emotions are a part of your body: wounds like that heal with time, and scar so you don't get so wounded the next time. Years later it'll just be a rough patch of skin, but it won't ever disappear entirely.
Something kind of like what happened to you happened to me once, and I was gutted. I think it happens to everyone, to a different extent. I had a calender diary, and the month anniversaries of our split-up were times when I got mad and frustrated. I wrote "Don't bother to ring her" on those days in the diary to remind myself that it wasn't worth it. You shouldn't pick at scabs, but let a wound heal. Then, the first year anniversary wasn't as bad as I thought it'd be. The past few years, I forgot all about the date of our anniversary. I'm sure your memories will fade too.
Something new is always around the corner, you just don't know what it is yet. I met my wife, who is a billion times more decent and loving that the girl who gutted me. Being with someone who loves me as much as I love her makes me realise that things have worked out for the best. They will for you, too.
Until that new thing comes around the corner, take it a day at a time.
I found this on her web browser,a secret message to the chubbyman. Delivered-To: Foncechevalier@webtv.net From: Retail Vip <VIPRETAIL@lasvegas.harrahs.com> To: "'Foncechevalier@webtv.net'" <Foncechevalier@webtv.net> Subject: Closing time... Date: Fri, Dec 1, 2000, 8:54pm (EDT-2) C~ Okay It is time for me to make my drop at the bank and head on out. Was hoping to talk with you tonight I'll see if I can call you. I really like chubby men who mouthbreath. You DON'T KNOW THIS and I NEVER TOLD YOU. I don't think it is a big deal, but the guys might, so please, don't say anything. Like I said tonight is D&D night so I prolly won't be on line until late. I'll definately check my mail before I go to bed, so feel free to e-mail me. So when do I get my picture of you, eh? J/K :) Cross your fingers on this aprtment we might get...we should know about Monday. If we don't get it it is very possible that we will go back to California.I am trusting you as a friend not to breathe a word of this to anyone it might cause some problems for us if anything is mentioned. Also if you do talk with D, don't mention it to him. He'd be mad at me for saying it. Simply because it is an idea and if it were to get back to the wrong people, it could cause some problems. So I am trusting this to you, why? Because you are like my only impartial friend anymore. I have none here and my friends from my home town have all moved away... You are the only friend that I talk with on a regular basis. I know that may sound weird. But you are my best friend right now, Fonce. Okay, I'll stop talking weird now. I need to get anyway, got to drop the bank then go home. I'll talk with you all later. Love Lindsay
Thanks for the reasuring commentary, Dave. I'm trying to forget by writing lewd and lascivious stories about Young Justice,I'm crossing my fingers that DC will give them a shot in thier new mature readers line. But I digress,I just cant get over my ex. I have to admit that I am "Arseface" ugly so theres not much chance finding another girl unless perhaps shes blind.
Marcus, the only advice I can come up with is to follow the advice given to me once, when I was in a vaguely similar state:
1) Take frequent showers.
2) Keep breathing.
It isn't much, but it works, I guess. And usually, when life cracks me upside the grape, I remind myself that things have been pretty dismal before and I always survived and was glad for it. Even if the pain you're in seems unprecedented, the same trend will probably follow.
Sorry I don't have anything better for you. You've got my sympathy, anyway. We've all been there.
Quote: Marcus said: How long should it take to get over losing your wife to another man? It's been awhile for me and I just cant forget her. I'd like to get that mouth breather she ran off with. I guess if I wasnt so busy playing computer games and Administrating message boards things would have been different.
"Why do you ask questions to which you already know the answers?"
whomod said: I generally don't like it when people decide to play by the rules against people who don't play by the rules. It tends to put you immediately at a disadvantage and IMO is a sign of true weakness. This is true both in politics and on the internet."
well this marcus character is a fuckwad piece of shit because i KNOW the real marcus and this fuckwad whos posting this, is either STAREEna new fuck toy or so other stupid fuck with a real dumb sense of humor that doesn't even know what the hell he is talking about. Then Again i could be wrong i will give marcus a chance to prove me wrong.
"Who am i. numb nuts"
"Your stupid ass idea has been noted, now fuck off and leave"
Quote: Wednesday said: You still haven't gotten laid, have you?
If getting laid means having to spout quippy gay bullshit like Marcus, Dhaise, Snarf, Oritz, etc. whenever I'm between fuck-buddies, how do you expect me to be motivated enough to achieve such an end?
Uschi said: I won't rape you, I'll just fuck you 'till it hurts and then not stop and you'll cry.
MisterJLA: RACKS so hard, he called Jim Rome "Chris Everett." In Him, all porn is possible. He is far above mentions in so-called "blogs." RACK him, lest ye be lost!
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