Complaining may be fun, but not when other people are complaining for you and directing said complaints to you.
Regardless, I've been working around it. Almost everyone thinks I've snapped, but I'm okay with not ever having a girlfriend. Seriously, if I were to abandon the idea of a significant other at this very moment, what would I really be leaving behind? It would be a case of "Goodbye, personal romantic indulgences. Thanks for the six kisses." What's the point in stressing over it?
I'll stick to giving romantic advice every so often (for some peculiar reason, my advice works for other people but not for myself), tending to the work related areas of my life (which I'll get back to after my lunch break), weightlifting, martial arts, poetry, cooking and the other activities on my "things to learn" list. That way, I'll be making constructive use of my time and not be distracted by the possibile reasons why that "special someone" continues to elude me.
Long story short, it's my life and if I have to live it in solitude (as far as bf/gf relationships are concerned), I have no qualms with that.
Okay, I'm going to stop now, as this is developing into a full-blown rant.
I know some of you had the pleasure of seeing my old website, which had a pic of me taken back in '98, but that was before I got glasses, so here's the most recent picture of myself. That and I still have my Alias cut here.
It was taken back in December at my church group's Christmas party.
wha? mine? Crap, well then can someone host it for me? I don't have any place I can do that. *sigh* Course an option is that if you have an ofoto account, you could log in and it'd come up, that or you could get an account.
quote:Originally posted by Brian A. Ortiz: (Before my reply: Welcome back, Kenya.)
Complaining may be fun, but not when other people are complaining for you and directing said complaints to you.
Regardless, I've been working around it. Almost everyone thinks I've snapped, but I'm okay with not ever having a girlfriend. Seriously, if I were to abandon the idea of a significant other at this very moment, what would I really be leaving behind? It would be a case of "Goodbye, personal romantic indulgences. Thanks for the six kisses." What's the point in stressing over it?
I'll stick to giving romantic advice every so often (for some peculiar reason, my advice works for other people but not for myself), tending to the work related areas of my life (which I'll get back to after my lunch break), weightlifting, martial arts, poetry, cooking and the other activities on my "things to learn" list. That way, I'll be making constructive use of my time and not be distracted by the possibile reasons why that "special someone" continues to elude me.
Long story short, it's my life and if I have to live it in solitude (as far as bf/gf relationships are concerned), I have no qualms with that.
Okay, I'm going to stop now, as this is developing into a full-blown rant.
If my experience has taught me anything, it's a lot easier to get a girl when you're not looking for one.
Here's a newer pic of me...scary with no make-up. Down about 45 lbs from my original pic (the pic is a few weeks old...I'm down 50 lbs from the original now) Kimi Pic
quote:Originally posted by Kimi: Here's a newer pic of me...scary with no make-up. Down about 45 lbs from my original pic (the pic is a few weeks old...I'm down 50 lbs from the original now) Kimi Pic
which one? There were a few posted that couldn't be viewed as a direct link. But if you quote the post with the 'missing' image, than all you have to do is copy and paste the URL into your browser's adress box.
quote:Originally posted by Batwoman: if you quote the post with the 'missing' image, than all you have to do is copy and paste the URL into your browser's adress box.
quote:Originally posted by Batwoman: I know some of you had the pleasure of seeing my old website, which had a pic of me taken back in '98, but that was before I got glasses, so here's the most recent picture of myself. That and I still have my Alias cut here.
It was taken back in December at my church group's Christmas party.
Hey Batwoman,youre not half bad looking. Now I see why Llance loves you so much.
quote:Originally posted by Brian A. Ortiz: Sometimes I wonder whether or not that would be worse than being told "NO" outright while other people watch.
quote:Originally posted by Kimi: Here's a pic from this past weekend... I suck at posting pics, so anyone that can help...I'm clueless...who knows maybe it will work...
quote:Originally posted by Batwoman: I know some of you had the pleasure of seeing my old website, which had a pic of me taken back in '98, but that was before I got glasses, so here's the most recent picture of myself. That and I still have my Alias cut here.
It was taken back in December at my church group's Christmas party.
Hey Batwoman,youre not half bad looking. Now I see why Llance loves you so much.