Ya know what I love?
When women constantly turn round & say "Looks are secondary" and say stuff like,"Any woman that dates you will be a lucky girl!",yet these women turn you down when you ask them out!
Strange that!
Apparently despite all the "great personality" you have,and how great you would be as a partner,you just aint their type.
Women & men are the same,you can have a great personality,and all the confidence in the world,but if you aint got the looks that does something for that person,you aint got shit!
Verily and Amen.
I'd only add that just because a girl isn't into you doesn't mean you're inadequate in any way. It just means you're not compatible. And there are plenty of women out there for whom you'd be perfect and they wouldn't want to change you.
In my teens and early 20's, I used to agonize over beautiful women who turned me down. And I'd work for them to come around. But of those I managed to eventually have some type of dating relationship with, they never made me happy anyway. It was too much work! And if you're compatible, it isn't work, it just flows naturally. You can't force magic to happen.
The phrase "be careful what you wish for" often best applies to dating.
