It was a jab, yes; but no different than the millions of jokes you've made implying that Grimm and I are gay for each other. It's just a joke (plus, you missed our anniversary). It's one that I made because you provided the opening with the military comment in your original post. The joke fit. That's all.
Fair enough, then. I took it out of context. I think I just lumped you in with Jake's normal bitching. I apologize for misunderstanding.