RKMBs Forums .::Important::. off topic and offensive posts What makes a relationship work?

Maybe I should have put this in the women catagory but I'm asking about relationships in general.

What makes them work.......what is paramount for something lasting to succeed?

I know its a variety of things but what is first and foremost?

well im not an expert on this but I think comunication is one of the most important things. my bf like how open i am sometimes and honest. be able to openely ask whats wrong, whats right,what I like and dislike so we learn from our mistakes and know how to please each other.try never to go home mad. try to talk it out. that way you wont bottle up any resentment that can come out later.I read somewhere that you should be nice to each other even when youre mad. (say thank you, and please) little details count. like offering the best seat, giving them a flower just because. things like that matter. dont be afraid to show your emotions. tell the person how you feel often and sometimes in detail. everyone loves that. make each other laugh. talk often on the phone. cause in the end after you get old conversation is all thats gona be left.

Communication, TRUST are the two big things. Then you need to let the woman talk all the goddamn time and pretend you are interested in what she has to say. Only a quarter of it may be useful information. Maybe less. Still, let her feel acknowledged and nod and act like you care. She'll buy it. Don't come on as a softy. Women like to be slapped around sometimes. It's that masochistic instinct within them. Hurt me, Daddy. Course, I don't know anything at all. Listening to me will only damn you.

And sleep around on them once in awhile just to keep them on their toes...

disregard that though if you actually got one of the 10-20% that are actually worth a shit....

Woah......we got a few bitter fellas out there!

Gentlemen, love and learn......we've all been hurt........that doesnt mean 90% of the women out there are shit..................just happens to be the ones you've dated are .

I know. Just kidding .....kinda....

You tell 'em, RKMBDICK!

I have found that there are a few simple things that make any relationship work.




Duct Tape
Kitchen Utensils
a well stocked pantry
sound proof room

oh and a good collection of porn.