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quote: Originally posted by Kimi: quote: Originally posted by La Machine: quote:
Mental: I also like people that are close to their families and have close friends. I don't tend to do well dating loners, I'm too outgoing.
Hmmm...I think that covers it.
See now this is what I never understand.
You're not dating the dude's MOM. Or his friends. Or even his goddamm dog. What I always notice about girls is they want to make sure the guy's not a "loner" (ie loser cause i think that's what you really mean ) but then once they grab him, it's like they don't want any friend or family coming near him, or it's "You're not paying any more attention to me" kinda stuff. I said it once and I'll say it again: guerilla tactics.
True, I'm not dating the "dude's" mom, and I said nothing about what his family has to be like, I just think it's nice if they have a good relationship with their family. Someone family oriented, because someday I want to have a family. And as for the comments about not wanting a guy to be with his friends, sound like someone did a number on you one time honey! Cuz that is not me at all. Guys I date go out with their friends and I expect to be able to go out with my friends no questions asked. Personally, I like a guy who goes out with his buddies once in a while, cuz it drives me nuts to be with someone 24/7, everyone needs a break now and then and too much togetherness can be a BAD thing (learned that by letting a BF move in...killed the relationship in a month!)[/QB]
True.... No one ever "pulled a number" on me (at least not that kind), but maybe it's just cause of university life and the fact that I see too many needy college girls that latch onto my boys (and girls too heh it is college) that I assume that is the way most women act towards a guy's friend and family structure. And yeah I see wayyyy too many couples that once they get serious they shut themselves in and NEVER come out, unless it is with OTHER couples! Madness. Sheer madness.
Oh and yNightwing? Tribe Called Quest and Nas RULE! Q-Tip is one of my top three favorite rappers ever. You should pick up (if you haven't already) Fifty Cents. He is dirty! Sick Dirty! He's already up there in my opinion with Nas, Jada, and Jay Z. Soon he'll join ranks of Biggy and 2Pac, guarantee it! A little too much ghetto for me, but his lyrics are tight. He is one sharp dude. Go get him. :)
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