Sometimes you won't have to ask shit. Some gals will just tell you everything that you did and didn't want to know about themselves, ex's, family, and their self-image.
But don't be selfish... spill some stuff too. But not as much as her. Typically, guys are more of a fuck-up than women relationship wise and she really doesn't want to hear your problems any more than you probably want to hear hers. Both people already have this pristene image in their heads about one another and here we go, deconstructing them.
Never let your defenses down first; despite any thinking, women still have the upper hand no matter how vulnerable they may appear.
