Girls are just screwed up in general. I think I've had more of my guy friends actually hurt lately from the so called "good girls" they dated than ever before. Maybe we just forgot how to treat each other kindly. It's always ticked me off how some girls lead a guy on and them crush them. That's so totally wrong...dangling with another person's emotions should be illegal.
Anyways you guys deserve better than the way girls are treating you. Just relax and be yourself. Remember that when the right girl comes along she'll treat you like the great guys you are. Hang in there!