3. Don't tell us you want us to show/tell you what we like in bed, and then get annoyed when we do tell you. Guys talk about how they want us to be more open in the bedroom, but you don't. I don't know if its insecurity or what, but if you are going to ask me if I like it harder/softer/faster/slower/this position/whatever, don't get annoyed at me when I (gently) tell you how I like it. If you don't want to know, stop fucking asking.
I like #3
I knew there was a reason I liked you.
If a man doesn't like #3 then they are insecure...