Quote: -involves what "giver" and "taker" perceive as sexual pleasure
Really? I'm definately 100% NOT asking for you to go into detail, but I was unaware of that. I alwayse assumed that only the giver got any pleasure. Now I know.
Then I have to ask...what the heck did you think the "catcher" got out of it? Why do you think the catcher did it if he didn't get any pleasure out of it?