I was wondering where this thread was.

Sacman: Maybe figuring things out means "I want to spend time with at least one other guy so I can find out if what I feel for him is in some way better than what I feel for you"?

Batwoman: You have a point there about not calling. I just now remembered a few women of my past who made it clear they wanted nothing more than a friendship, and then after I find someone else to be interested in she suddenly wants to know ALL about her "replacement".

Matt: Thanks. I'm glad you liked what I had to say. Believe me, I know the scenario as do others here and it can be VERY frustrating.