Figured it would be nice to have an open topic for people who need help with relationships....Guess I should start things off.
Okay, as a few of you already know, I've been dating a wonderful woman from Morris Plains (which is like an hour from North Jersey). When we first started dating, the situation was very convenient: I had my own room, she was very familiar with my campus (she knows a lot of girls there), and we both had Wednesday afternoons free.
Fast forward to now, and that's all changed: She has a full-time job with Panasonic and I live in New York with no car and limited means of seeing her...Hell, I don't even have a bed, I sleep on the floor! Plus I don't have a "real job" yet, so I'm dead broke. That said, we rarely see each other...and when we do, it's not for very long. Take last Friday, for instance. We spent an hour together in her car.
The point I'm trying to make is: The spark is most definitely there in our relationship. In fact, when things were at their worst (a fiasco with my family's cell phone bill where I had to use my dad's phone to call her at night), she started telling me she loves me. We talk almost every day, and I e-mail her as well. How do I keep that spark alive...or if possible, start an even bigger flame? Also, what the hell can I do to spend more time with her? (Keep in mind that an ex-roommate offered the option of using his place to crash/watch movies/whatever)
