RKMBs Forums .::Important::. Fortress of Awesome Chat A thread about Lor

He really has made it easy for you Lor. I know this is going to be hard, but you need to let go. Don't waste energy holding a grudge. You're going to need to find a way, somehow, at some point, to forgive him. I don't think asking God for justice is the way to go. The only way your ex will ever find happiness is if he matures, and that's up to him. Maybe he will, and maybe he won't. But he'll never the chance with you again, and that's his loss. You just need to let go, move on, and be happy for yourself. In fact, you should thank him for doing this now instead of waiting until after you got married. Like you said, you've learned a lot from this, so you know you'll be more careful the next time you find yourself falling in love (by the way, how's that going?). Remember that we are judged by how we judge others. How can we be forgiven for our mistakes if we can't forgive others for theirs? What you need is positive energy, and that only comes from positive thinking. So think of the positives of all of this, let go of the negatives, and know that you've got friends you can talk (vent) to if you need it.