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harleykwin said:
Lor, I am so sorry for what you're going through right now. I know this doesn't make you feel better at the moment, but better that it happened at this point than down the line when there are kids, mortgages, etc. involved. I have a friend who just told our group last week that she's getting divorced (which sadly, didn't surprise any of us). She and her soon-to-be-ex-husband had many problems/issues before they got hitched, but she glossed over them thinking things would change and got married anyway and now its going to be a very bitter divorce. I realize you may not see it this way at the moment, but you have probably avoided a much bigger heartache with it ending now. I hope you'll be ok.

As for the legal issue about getting him to pay his share - if you want to, send me a PM with the details and I'll try to help you out as best I can.

I'm crossing my fingers for you.



yea, im happy things happened this way, well lol, for the most part. it is best that he did it now and not at the alter or later. even though it feels like he did yah know. but it shall pass in time, time is healing. im okay for the most part. as okay as one can expect someone to be i sapose is a good way to put it. im just gonna conentrate on being happy again.

sure, ill pm you sometime. right now for the moment i just want to relax and take care of myself for a day or two. after that then we can talk the legal stuff. thank you, your a sweetheart.

glad to be of pleasurable service

"don't worry hunny, we'll dig our own graves..."

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