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crawfordcrow said:
As you know, I'm in a rather similar situation, right now, so I can fully empathize with where you're at, Lor. I'm glad to hear you're willing to get back on the horse. This isn't the first time in life I've had something like this happen, and it may not be the last, but all of those good times (and lessons learned) inbetween were certainly worth it. Devastated as I am, I know I'll end up jumping in again.

So, I think it's cool that you're determined to keep trying, just be mindful of your emotional state before you wade too deep, too quickly. "Rebound"s can be just what the doctor ordered - can even turn into long-term relationships - but, if handled too sloppily or blindly, can also hurt one or both people.

Mostly, though, I hope you can take care of all the mess that this has caused in other areas of your life and get back on track. I know how rough that can be. It will smooth out, in the end, though.

Take care.



thanks, you dont know how much i apreceate your kind words. i feel for you too, im so sorry this happened to the both of us. like some one said lol must be in the water this month.

but yea no worries we are taking it slower than a snail can run. no rebounding here. i have been mindful of my feelings. ive told the new guy that i want to be 100% in this relationship. and to do that i have to take things at my pace. i have to tie up loose ends and get this whole mess over with. and until that we are going to be a couple but do things slowly. im not expecting much right now. and hes cool with that and thats wonderful. he even comended me today on how ive been doing all this the intellagent way, very maturely. so thats wonderful, truely a blessing.

glad to be of pleasurable service

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