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Joe Mama said:
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Lor said:
i wish people would consult me before they make false, demeaning, accusations that are just a bunch of lies or made up to what they thing is the truth cause they dont really know what is really going on. but no. they dont. im getting tired of everytime i turn around im being accused of something that isnt true or yelled at for wanting more in life.



So you would've preferred your mother to call and consult you before calling and leaving the phone message she did?



she left me a voice mail at 5.30 AM... i was alseep. she knew this.. and yet she assumed i would be up... im never up that early, ever...

she never asks or talks about what she might suspect, worry, or whatever she only dramatizes on the what she makes up to be the truth.

there is no talking to my mother. for one: you cant get any words in edge wise, for two: no matter how much i explain something it doesnt get through. what she thinks is what she thinks regardless of what you tell her. she may agree and say shes sorry but then shell turn right around and say the same thing all over again. or, this is a good one, say that she told me something when in reality she didnt.

ive tried talking to her and besides my most valiant and persistent efforts she still continues. ive tried showing her with out prevail. so i gave up and ignore her but one can only ignore so much.

what i want is for her to call me and ask so we can talk about whatever it is. even if it is just something stupid and frivolous.

the other thing is she gets the whole family thinking something that isnt, so they in turn call me with their own assumptions and im not talking big issues either im talking minor ones to and ones that dont concern me but some how she makes them turn out to concern me. its riduclous and getting out of hand.